In 'You Are What You Say - Not How You Say It,' I dive into my personal battle with a lifelong speech impediment, proving that the power of words goes beyond mere articulation. This book isn't just a story; it's a testament to resilience and determination, highlighting ten essential postulates that helped me overcome the odds. These principles are designed to inspire anyone, whether or not they stutter, to overcome barriers and achieve their aspirations. My experiences in the military and as an academic create a rich tapestry of insights to help guide you toward success, showcasing the importance of persistence and self-belief. Let's embark on this journey together, breaking boundaries and redefining possibilities.